You're quite free to join us in the permission-based and consent driven galaxies of the fediverse.
Or you can keep hanging out with the 17 million or so "popular kids" who spend their days arguing about who is federating with whom today and constantly shuffling instances to try and find one that blocks all their enemies but doesn't block all their friends -- or that won't block you on some whim.
It's the same network and all the same people. It's a different way of dealing with conflict.
Peace.
